As this summer comes to an end, I'm surveying my golf game and thinking about what to do next. This is my third season playing golf, but really only the 2nd season playing regularly. The guys I play with are all hackers who play around 100. I am considerably worse than them, scoring 120 pretty consistently. I've shot a few lower rounds, but not many. I've birdied one hole, ever.
Anyway, the guys I play with just show up and golf. They don't take lessons; they don't hit balls at the driving range. I didn't used to do those things either, but this year I thought I'd try to improve at least to their level, so I've taken lessons and hit 1000s and 1000s of balls at the range. My score hasn't changed. I've had the experience twice this summer of being beaten by people who never played before. I'm that bad.
I've learned a lot about golf, and I have a pretty good idea what I do wrong. I sometimes make wonderful shots, in fact. And I occasionally have a pretty good round (by my standards) but the plain truth is that these are deviations from the norm.
Any sport takes a modicum of talent, I think, and I have to face the possibility that I just don't have any. I know that most people in my position would've given up the game by now. I'm not considering giving up golf. I still enjoy playing, and I can get a laugh out of some of my predicaments on the course. But I AM considering whether I should give up any pretense of trying to improve. The lessons, buckets of balls, etc... I have to wonder whether I'm sabotaging my ability to enjoy golf by cultivating expectations that I can't fulfill.
Anyway, the guys I play with just show up and golf. They don't take lessons; they don't hit balls at the driving range. I didn't used to do those things either, but this year I thought I'd try to improve at least to their level, so I've taken lessons and hit 1000s and 1000s of balls at the range. My score hasn't changed. I've had the experience twice this summer of being beaten by people who never played before. I'm that bad.
I've learned a lot about golf, and I have a pretty good idea what I do wrong. I sometimes make wonderful shots, in fact. And I occasionally have a pretty good round (by my standards) but the plain truth is that these are deviations from the norm.
Any sport takes a modicum of talent, I think, and I have to face the possibility that I just don't have any. I know that most people in my position would've given up the game by now. I'm not considering giving up golf. I still enjoy playing, and I can get a laugh out of some of my predicaments on the course. But I AM considering whether I should give up any pretense of trying to improve. The lessons, buckets of balls, etc... I have to wonder whether I'm sabotaging my ability to enjoy golf by cultivating expectations that I can't fulfill.
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