I decided to start a new thread to share a few things I have learned since I started golfing and came to this site. When my husband and I first came here(Not too long ago) we were too "eager to please" and took every piece of advice to heart. I'm not saying this is a bad thing, but it stopped us from thinking for ourselves. Every piece of advice is not for everyone and needs to be tailored to your own specific needs. So here are a couple tips for the new golfer who is constantly receiving advice, whether it be willingly or not...
1. Be aware of the pace of the course and the people behind you. Be courteous to your fellow players but remember... You are there for YOUR game and YOUR enjoyment, not theirs. The worst thing you can do is to hurry through. If the team behind you is having to wait, just simply ask if they want to play through. Hurrying can be the most damaging thing to your game. I had a "lightbulb" moment in this area. A lot of people want to tell you to hurry. This happened to me my first and only time golfing(thus far) and it completely ruined my day. If you happen to have one of those people on your team tell them... It takes less time to do the shot right the first time then it does to have to take 2-3 corrective shots because you were hurried. So take those extra few seconds to set your club just right. Take those extra few seconds to get your stance just right. Take those extra few seconds to do that one more practice swing. Take those extra few seconds for a deep breath to relax yourself and then swing. In the long run, you'll save time because it takes more then those few seconds extra you took to walk to your ball(20 feet away in my case most times) and do it all over again... sometimes more then once then it did to do it right the first time.
2. Don't be afraid to take lessons... And the sooner the better. I find in my experience(not just in golf or sports) that if you consistently practice doing something the "wrong" way, it makes it all the more difficult when it comes to learning it the right way. You have to first UNlearn the bad habits and incorrect practices you've taught yourself before you can learn it correctly.
3. Make a "pact" with your partner or someone on your team to be "ball watcher". I found one of my main problems was, since I'm new and don't have a set path my ball usually takes(since I'm no where near accurate yet) I had a hard time seeing where my ball went after I hit. So to "correct" that problem, I ended up raising my head too soon, causing a whole new problem... Bad hits or misses altogether. So by having someone there with you to help you watch where your ball goes, it will save you some of the stress and worry and you will be able to concentrate on your swing better. As you get better, you will instinctively know what path your ball normally takes so it will be much easier to keep track once it has left your club. But to get better, you need to be able to hit the ball consistently and worrying about it's path with only hurt your game... Not help it. My husband and I have already made this "pact" and as soon as I take my first lesson or two(hopefully today) we will try an actual course again and see how it goes.
Anyway, I guess that's it. If anyone has any other advice for us "newbies" please share. Same goes to any of the other "newbies". If you have a "revelation" or a tip, from one new golfer to another, please share! I'm always willing to learn something new and in a complicated game such as golf, all the help and insight you can get is appreciated. Oh... One last piece of advice...
DON'T GIVE UP!! The MSF(Motorcycle Safety Foundation) has a saying... I think it fits everything in life, not just motorcycling... It states...
"The more you know, the better it gets!"
Looking forward to hearing some of you all's ideas. Take care and watch out for those water hazards!!
~Trish~
1. Be aware of the pace of the course and the people behind you. Be courteous to your fellow players but remember... You are there for YOUR game and YOUR enjoyment, not theirs. The worst thing you can do is to hurry through. If the team behind you is having to wait, just simply ask if they want to play through. Hurrying can be the most damaging thing to your game. I had a "lightbulb" moment in this area. A lot of people want to tell you to hurry. This happened to me my first and only time golfing(thus far) and it completely ruined my day. If you happen to have one of those people on your team tell them... It takes less time to do the shot right the first time then it does to have to take 2-3 corrective shots because you were hurried. So take those extra few seconds to set your club just right. Take those extra few seconds to get your stance just right. Take those extra few seconds to do that one more practice swing. Take those extra few seconds for a deep breath to relax yourself and then swing. In the long run, you'll save time because it takes more then those few seconds extra you took to walk to your ball(20 feet away in my case most times) and do it all over again... sometimes more then once then it did to do it right the first time.
2. Don't be afraid to take lessons... And the sooner the better. I find in my experience(not just in golf or sports) that if you consistently practice doing something the "wrong" way, it makes it all the more difficult when it comes to learning it the right way. You have to first UNlearn the bad habits and incorrect practices you've taught yourself before you can learn it correctly.
3. Make a "pact" with your partner or someone on your team to be "ball watcher". I found one of my main problems was, since I'm new and don't have a set path my ball usually takes(since I'm no where near accurate yet) I had a hard time seeing where my ball went after I hit. So to "correct" that problem, I ended up raising my head too soon, causing a whole new problem... Bad hits or misses altogether. So by having someone there with you to help you watch where your ball goes, it will save you some of the stress and worry and you will be able to concentrate on your swing better. As you get better, you will instinctively know what path your ball normally takes so it will be much easier to keep track once it has left your club. But to get better, you need to be able to hit the ball consistently and worrying about it's path with only hurt your game... Not help it. My husband and I have already made this "pact" and as soon as I take my first lesson or two(hopefully today) we will try an actual course again and see how it goes.
Anyway, I guess that's it. If anyone has any other advice for us "newbies" please share. Same goes to any of the other "newbies". If you have a "revelation" or a tip, from one new golfer to another, please share! I'm always willing to learn something new and in a complicated game such as golf, all the help and insight you can get is appreciated. Oh... One last piece of advice...
DON'T GIVE UP!! The MSF(Motorcycle Safety Foundation) has a saying... I think it fits everything in life, not just motorcycling... It states...
"The more you know, the better it gets!"
Looking forward to hearing some of you all's ideas. Take care and watch out for those water hazards!!
~Trish~
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